Just a few days ago, I got married in the real world. It happened all of a sudden and went something like, “Hey you want to get married?” “Sure, why not?” And the next thing I knew, we were at the courthouse. I wasn’t sure if I was going to share this with my blog readers, but I figured since I shared my heartbreak, my political views and even when I accidentally swallowed jewelry, I could share when I got hitched.
I have to admit, even though I’ve known him for 2 years now I’m feeling a bit scared, but not because I’m not happy. I don’t think I’ve been happier nor have I ever felt more comfortable with another person as I do with him. However, recently there has been a lot of change in my life and my life is kind of chaotic at the moment. I also don’t have the best track record when it comes to relationships. I’ve been engaged a few times before and it didn’t end well and left me with trust and insecurity issues. I don’t have any doubts about us, but I do have certain fears. I also tend to overthink everything. I’m looking forward to a lifetime with him and I guess what I’m hoping for are my nerves to settle and for me to just get used to all the change that’s happened all of a sudden.
I guess another reason I decided to share this event in my life is so I can ask for some advice. To those blog readers that have been married for a while and still happy after many years, what’s your secret? How did you make it work? What would be your advice for a newlywed like me?
With all the change that’s been happening in my real life, I haven’t had as much time for my Second Life. I’m hoping once I’ve moved in completely by tomorrow and gotten used to the new kitten that came along with the new husband, both of whom are demanding a lot of my attention lol, I’ll have more time for my favorite hobby again.
I have decided to disable some of my social networks, at least for a while. I’m not sure when I’ll be back, but hopefully soon. I just want to focus on getting comfortable in my new life. I will continue blogging whenever I get the chance. Second Life and blogging are an important part of my life; they give me the opportunity to escape and release my creativity. Thank you all for the well wishes. <3
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