The Sexual Meme

First Anniversary of Memes

It was around this time last year that I blogged my first Monday Meme. On March 11, 2013 I asked you guys to share 7 sl facts with me. It was just a goofy idea I got after reading one of Tymmerie’s plurks that day. Never did I imagine I would continue to do these memes throughout the year. If I counted correctly, today’s meme is my 49th meme/challenge I’ve done since last year. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed sharing more of myself through the year along with learning more about you guys. I’m not sure how much longer I can do these memes, but if I do, I hope you continue to participate because it makes it all the more fun.

stop looking at my nipples

You can say a lot of the memes are TMI memes. Sometimes we do end up sharing “too much information” but I believe it can be fun and entertaining to do so. I figured, since most of my memes have been relatively PG, we can get a bit more personal with this one.

Meme instructions: Answer the following sexual questions because I am a perv and want to know all about your sex lives. Don’t forget to leave a link to your post in the comments so I can perv all over your answers, multiple times.

The Sexual Meme

Sexual Questions: (for RL and/or SL)

  1. What is your sexual orientation or do you not like to label yourself? – I guess if I were to label myself, I would say I am heterosexual since I am attracted to men. However, I have been with women before (in both lives) so not sure what that makes me? Not sure I care about labels either way.
  2. Name a physical attribute that you find attractive or sexy. – I have a thing for eyes. Dark piercing eyes definitely win my heart. I also like men to be tall and muscular, but not too bulky. Just toned and muscular enough that you can see the ripples under the shirt. In SL however, I don’t like shapes that are very tall and muscular. I prefer slimmer male avatars that are dressed stylishly or in just a suit.
  3. Are you promiscuous, a prude or in between? – I used to be promiscuous in my college years, but now I’m not at all. I don’t think I’m a prude but as I get older, I am not really interested in going around having sex with many different partners like I used to in my younger years. I’d rather have a connection with one person and just be with them. At the moment I’m kind of in a man/relationship hating phase and still going through the anger/depression part of the breakup so I don’t really want any of that or even want to communicate too much with many people.
  4. What turns you on? – When a guy whispers my name in my ear. I have no idea why. I just really really like that. Like a lot. In SL I get turned on by interesting/flirty conversations. If the guy is funny and charming, I’m usually hooked.
  5. Are you dominant or submissive? – I am more submissive.
  6. Are you into sexual roleplay? – As submissive as I am, I am not really into roleplay. Surprisingly I haven’t really tried it much in SL, which is what a lot of people use SL for. I did do some in RL and pretty much giggled my way through it. I am a sucky roleplayer.
  7. Which sexual position is your favorite? – I’m not telling! Ugh, ok fine cowgirl. YES, I LIKE BEING ON TOP OK! I blame all these embarrassing questions on Nora.
  8. Do you have any fetishes? – I’m not sure. I like my toes sucked, is that a fetish? Don’t knock it till you try it Zee! :P
  9. Have you or would you do porn, amateur or professional? – Not in SL and no I wouldn’t. In RL, I’m not sure. I did a lot of stupid things in college that I don’t remember completely.
  10. Do you consider yourself sexy? – No, lol. I am so far from sexy. Maybe in SL, Berry can look sexy but my goofy personality shines through I bet. In RL, anytime I try and be sexy, I usually end up falling or tripping.

A big thank you to Norajean Jonson and Bouncer Criss for providing some of these questions.

I fell off my chair

I have been struggling with myself all day about today’s meme. I wasn’t sure if I should hit publish or not and how this meme would be received. But then I figured, why not? If you don’t feel comfortable sharing this stuff on your blog, you can skip this week or participate in one of the memes from before. They can all be found in my Blog Challenges category.

Since it’s been a year of memes and I’m not really sure if I want to continue doing them, I figured I’d do a poll and see what you guys think. So if you have a moment, please share your opinions in the poll. Thank you.

Skin: League Skin Erin Dark Feline Brunette by Nena Janus (@ Skin Fair on March 14th)
*Eyes: IKON Promise Eyes Hazel by Ikon Innovia
*Hair: TRUTH HAIR Perla by Truth Hawks
Lingerie: Baiastice_Cynzya Lingerie-black by Sissy Pessoa (collection on flickr)
*Shoes: ESQ. + Zareena Sandal / HIGH / Onyx by Kayami Osakki (on flickr)
*Mesh Feet: Slink Female Feet (AvEnhance) S – High by Siddean Munro
*Mesh Hands: Slink Avatar Enhancement Hands – Casual by Siddean Munro
*Poses+Prop: Diesel Works Elvira Ottoman for WCF3 by Rogan Diesel (on flickr)

84 thoughts on “The Sexual Meme

  1. I like that I can pick more than one in the poll.

  2. I chose ‘Yes’ in the poll, but if you’re not sure if you *want* to continue doing them, then the decision should ultimately rest with you, not your blog readership. Of course I (and others, from looking at the results) would like the memes to continue, because I look forward to doing them each week, but if they’ve lost their lustre for you, or they’re causing you stress because you worry about coming up with subjects or getting them posted on time, then do what *you* need to do, not what the rest of us want you to do.

    As to the questions, I have to leave for work in about 20 minutes, so I’ll have an entire day to stew over whether I’m going to post this one or not ;-)

  3. Berry, every time I read your blog it makes me smile :) Just thought you should know! Great meme today!

  4. I’m LOL’ing at how many votes from people who want you to have their babies x’D

  5. anderian sugarplum says:

    So glad to know I’m not the only person who voted yes and you should have my babies me hope that ppl still have sense of humor lol. And ill post ya my link when I get toit later.

  6. You seduced me into it, Strawberry, though I’m worried I’m a bit dull.

  7. Caitlin Mirabella says:

    Unfortunately I’m about to log for the night and go to bed, and I have a full day of work ahead of me tomorrow, so my Monday Meme will come on Wednesday, but I am SO looking forward to this one!!!

    You’re such an amazing, talented person, Berry…thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your memes with us, and I would love to continue them, and to see you continue them, but if you are getting tired of doing them, then it becomes a chore…and what fun would that be?

  8. I was gonna answer the poll with “Yes, and I want you to have my babies,” until I realized that that one was a little redundant….

  9. Whether you decide to continue the challenges or not..I think everyone will agree that you’ve helped many of us get comfortable with the content we put on our own blogs. For that alone, I whole heartedly thank you. They’ve really helped me to overcome the initial shock of “what the heck do I write about?” syndrome I had when I started SL blogging. For that I also thank you and will sacrifice a coconut in your honor.

  10. Zee says NO TO TOE. You are disturbing, HAHA! So is that a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to college vids? XD

    I want to do this meme so bad, and I shall once I know how to IP-ban my family from landing on my blog, hahaha.

  11. Wow Berry? Really wonders if Winter hacked her blog??? Lmao

  12. Hi, Berry… Hmmm. I REALLY want to do this meme (getting all steamy just thinking about it…), but might not post on the official blog, given our M rating over at the sim. BUT, we do have two other sims and one is A-rated, so…perhaps it really is time for me to set up shop for my own work – and have a second blog. It will be one that’s MINEMINEMINE and allows me much more freedom of expression.

    Oui, mon amie… That settles it.

    So now, I owe you even more for the inspiration and encouragement I’ve always felt when visiting your blog. You just tripled it…

  13. I like the memes..I enjoy reading reading them. I like the flickr theme ones the best, so that would be my only request for memes…more photo themes :D

  14. […] want to know all about your sex lives. Don’t forget to leave a link to your post in the comments here so I can perv all over your answers, multiple […]

  15. Lots of comments, not a lot of posts…yet! I’ll keep checking back.

    Here’s mine, in the meanwhile:

  16. […] It was around this time last year that I blogged my first Monday Meme. On March 11, 2013 I asked you guys to share 7 sl facts with me. It was just a goofy idea I got after reading one of Tymmerie’s plurks that day.  […]

  17. Even I enjoy these posts. Not sure if I’d do this one though, I don’t want to get into trouble with you-know-who ;)

  18. I love your Monday Meme’s Berry. They are a great way of keeping me engaged in the world of SL and motivating me to explore new places and experiences. It also helps build the community aspect of SL and always brings a smile to my face on Mondays. For my part I hope that you are able to keep on providing them! Raza

  19. […] in how you say it. And where you say it. And what time of the day you say, it. This week’s Monday Meme is all about the eccentricities of our ehem, dare I say, libido. I said it! omygawd, I sound like […]


    I’m with Zee on your fetish..but it warrants a try :O


    I didn’t really follow the Meme. I made it more like a personal story that I wanted to share.

  22. DavidThomas Scorbal says:

    If I’m not mistaken, I’ve seen your RL picture. And if I’m not mistaken, you’re mistaken about not being sexy in RL – you are a super hottie, and your personality doesn’t detract from that – quite the opposite.

    Oh and by the way … I’m not mistaken.

  23. Hahah I went ahead and did it though why not who cares ahha but I will warn Im a vanilla bore haha

  24. […] berry is a horrible sl pervert and so she decided to celebrate a year of memes by asking us all dirty questions… […]

  25. Wierdly (and unexpectedly) mine turned out as much thinky as it did kinky:

  26. […] (okay, yesterday’s; it went up right before I left for work this morning) Monday Meme is all about sex. Now, I wasn’t going to participate in this one, but I’ve had a day to mull it over (if […]

  27. […] Strawberry’s monday meme… sex confessions […]

  28. And here is mine! I still love the memes…..

  29. Joining in from today on the SL feed as I don’t have a blog, hope others will get involved too! Loved this weeks meme, naughty or nice? I’ll you you be the judge!

  30. Anon Bouncer says:

    You should have a Monday meme to blog naked for the week

    Anon :)

  31. Whew! Finally got to the challenge and I combined it with Topless Tuesday!! Thanks, Strawberry :D

  32. Kat Terrawyng says:

    Favorite meme EVER, but the best part… LEAGUE HAS A NEW SKIN?!?!? Can’t WAIT to play with it!!!

  33. Its a great thing this “Notify me on follow-up comments” hehehe. Thanks everyone for sharing your intimate stuff, it was interesting to read all posts and I can’t wait to see more! Here is mine

  34. Love all the meme’s hope that you continue them!

  35. In all honesty, I very rarely follow people’s memes, but I like reading yours. So, yes, continue.

  36. […] Singh did a “Sexual Meme” here: and so did I! You can too! I feel that this is perfect for hump […]

  37. […] I have newness from FaMESHed and I’m doing Berry’s Sex Meme. Mutresse released this lovely asian style dress called Cveti it comes with a color change HUD to […]

  38. Love reading the responses…and your memes Berry! Afraid I’m rather boring for this one but it took me a long time to press the “publish” button.

  39. I had to do this meme! Thanks Berry for “FORCING” me to air my dirty laundry!!

  40. Thank you for a year of memes! I hope you keep up with them, I’ve really enjoyed seeing the new meme every Monday, and reading everybody’s responses! :D
    I’m tremendously dull, but I gave it a shot anyway…

  41. Sexy Sex that’s Sexy… Such a naughty topic this week! Gotta love a little naughty every once in a while hehe…

  42. […] have been keeping up with Strawberry Singh’s blog for a while and I am always interested in the Monday Memes that she does. I have never participated […]

  43. Bear Silvershade says:

    You know, I spent some time preparing my list of answers to the sexual meme, but I am too chicken to post them… What can I say? I’m a shy guy and most guys are a lot shyer than you ladies think. :)

    But riffing off the Fifty Shades of Strawberry cover Evil Botgirl tweeted yesterday, how about a “your avatar in fiction” meme sometime?

  44. […] I think I”m going to give Berry’s Sexual Meme a […]

  45. So I think I”m going to give Berry’s Sexual Meme a shot.

  46. MidnightRain Glas says:

    Loved loved your meme and I love my toes played with and sucked too did you know caressing the toes can be very arousing in my very younger days my saying was play with my toes and I will follow you anywhere. Lol
    I notice feet and looking someone’s feet tells a lot about someone

  47. […] Strawberry Singh's Sexual Meme Post […]

  48. Thank you to all of you for not judging me too hard for this meme and for participating in it. Also thank you for participating in the poll. As I said in today’s meme: it’s not that I don’t want to do the memes anymore, I really enjoy doing them but I wasn’t sure if everyone else still enjoyed them as well or if they were getting tired of them. Now that I know that at least 222 of you love them and look forward to them every week, I will definitely be continuing them.

    This week’s meme is up now and this time I’ve asked y’all to create a Second Life Book Cover, hope you participate:

  49. […] berry is a horrible sl pervert and so she decided to celebrate a year of memes by asking us all dirty questions… […]

  50. […] and forth as to whether or not I was gonna answer Miss Strawberry‘s Sexual Meme posted back over a month ago but there have been so many great responses I felt the need to provide my seemingly unique […]

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  53. Awesome post, and very fun to do!

  54. […] meme this time is: The Sexual Meme (just in case you want to try it yourself). Happy reading […]

  55. I had to pick up this one and answered those question on my blog. I guess that was expected from me anyway :-).

    Here is the link:

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