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The Sexual Meme

First Anniversary of Memes

It was around this time last year that I blogged my first Monday Meme. On March 11, 2013 I asked you guys to share 7 sl facts with me. It was just a goofy idea I got after reading one of Tymmerie’s plurks that day. Never did I imagine I would continue to do these memes throughout the year. If I counted correctly, today’s meme is my 49th meme/challenge I’ve done since last year. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed sharing more of myself through the year along with learning more about you guys. I’m not sure how much longer I can do these memes, but if I do, I hope you continue to participate because it makes it all the more fun.

stop looking at my nipples

You can say a lot of the memes are TMI memes. Sometimes we do end up sharing “too much information” but I believe it can be fun and entertaining to do so. I figured, since most of my memes have been relatively PG, we can get a bit more personal with this one.

Meme instructions: Answer the following sexual questions because I am a perv and want to know all about your sex lives. Don’t forget to leave a link to your post in the comments so I can perv all over your answers, multiple times.

The Sexual Meme

Sexual Questions: (for RL and/or SL)

  1. What is your sexual orientation or do you not like to label yourself? – I guess if I were to label myself, I would say I am heterosexual since I am attracted to men. However, I have been with women before (in both lives) so not sure what that makes me? Not sure I care about labels either way.
  2. Name a physical attribute that you find attractive or sexy. – I have a thing for eyes. Dark piercing eyes definitely win my heart. I also like men to be tall and muscular, but not too bulky. Just toned and muscular enough that you can see the ripples under the shirt. In SL however, I don’t like shapes that are very tall and muscular. I prefer slimmer male avatars that are dressed stylishly or in just a suit.
  3. Are you promiscuous, a prude or in between? – I used to be promiscuous in my college years, but now I’m not at all. I don’t think I’m a prude but as I get older, I am not really interested in going around having sex with many different partners like I used to in my younger years. I’d rather have a connection with one person and just be with them. At the moment I’m kind of in a man/relationship hating phase and still going through the anger/depression part of the breakup so I don’t really want any of that or even want to communicate too much with many people.
  4. What turns you on? – When a guy whispers my name in my ear. I have no idea why. I just really really like that. Like a lot. In SL I get turned on by interesting/flirty conversations. If the guy is funny and charming, I’m usually hooked.
  5. Are you dominant or submissive? – I am more submissive.
  6. Are you into sexual roleplay? – As submissive as I am, I am not really into roleplay. Surprisingly I haven’t really tried it much in SL, which is what a lot of people use SL for. I did do some in RL and pretty much giggled my way through it. I am a sucky roleplayer.
  7. Which sexual position is your favorite? – I’m not telling! Ugh, ok fine cowgirl. YES, I LIKE BEING ON TOP OK! I blame all these embarrassing questions on Nora.
  8. Do you have any fetishes? – I’m not sure. I like my toes sucked, is that a fetish? Don’t knock it till you try it Zee! :P
  9. Have you or would you do porn, amateur or professional? – Not in SL and no I wouldn’t. In RL, I’m not sure. I did a lot of stupid things in college that I don’t remember completely.
  10. Do you consider yourself sexy? – No, lol. I am so far from sexy. Maybe in SL, Berry can look sexy but my goofy personality shines through I bet. In RL, anytime I try and be sexy, I usually end up falling or tripping.

A big thank you to Norajean Jonson and Bouncer Criss for providing some of these questions.

I fell off my chair

I have been struggling with myself all day about today’s meme. I wasn’t sure if I should hit publish or not and how this meme would be received. But then I figured, why not? If you don’t feel comfortable sharing this stuff on your blog, you can skip this week or participate in one of the memes from before. They can all be found in my Blog Challenges category.

Since it’s been a year of memes and I’m not really sure if I want to continue doing them, I figured I’d do a poll and see what you guys think. So if you have a moment, please share your opinions in the poll. Thank you.

Skin: League Skin Erin Dark Feline Brunette by Nena Janus (@ Skin Fair on March 14th)
*Eyes: IKON Promise Eyes Hazel by Ikon Innovia
*Hair: TRUTH HAIR Perla by Truth Hawks
Lingerie: Baiastice_Cynzya Lingerie-black by Sissy Pessoa (collection on flickr)
*Shoes: ESQ. + Zareena Sandal / HIGH / Onyx by Kayami Osakki (on flickr)
*Mesh Feet: Slink Female Feet (AvEnhance) S – High by Siddean Munro
*Mesh Hands: Slink Avatar Enhancement Hands – Casual by Siddean Munro
*Poses+Prop: Diesel Works Elvira Ottoman for WCF3 by Rogan Diesel (on flickr)


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Berry CatFace

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In My League

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Wanna Shag?

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Peace and Love

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To be released

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Turquoise love

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